The Cost of Living

Every year my dad pays for the "deluxe" version of Turbo Tax, which is great because I'm able to use the software for free. Despite all of the bad press it's getting on TikTok, I am not in the mood for researching another software and starting things from scratch. I am also not interested in …

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“Good” Schools

I remember everyone asking what I was going to do for pre-school when my kid was two. Honestly, I hadn't really thought about it. At the time, I was living at home with my parents in the suburbs and commuting into the city for a full-time job that paid me $17 an hour. The plan …

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Tired.

We are not to be believed. We are not to be trusted. We do not know anything, including facts about ourselves. We are Women. And so the last couple of weeks has gone by, having to interact with men. Men who talk to me like I can't hear. Men who talk me like I don't …

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Good

The realtor is telling us this is a good neighborhood. Better than the one the house we just looked at was in. "Good schools" she comments. When I look up the elementary school, it's rated "1", where as the school in the not as good neighborhood is rated "1+". Hmm. Demographically speaking, the "good" neighborhood …

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The Lie

It unfolds so slowly. Maybe you had a rough pregnancy. A rough birth. A hard time breastfeeding (if that's what you wanted to do.) Postpartum depression.  Maybe your baby was sick a lot. Maybe your baby cried a lot. Maybe your baby never slept. As your whole being crumbles to the needs of this helpless …

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